No Televison?

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Dalam rangka menyukseskan gerakan HARI TANPA TV 2008 yang diprakarsai oleh Yayasan Pengembangan Media Anak dan didukung oleh berbagai institusi yang bersedia bergabung, maka akan diselenggarakan:

"FUN DAY WITHOUT TV 2008"
Tanggal : 20 Juli 2008
Waktu : Pk 09.00 - selesai WIB
Lokasi : Taman Monas

Bentuk kegiatan : mengundang dan bekerja sama dengan beberapa sekolah dan perguruan tinggi di Jabodetabek untuk mengadakan lomba, bazaar kecil, membuka booth tanya jawab seputar anak dan TV bagi orangtua dan anak-anak.
Mengapa perlu ada Hari Tanpa TV (HTT)? Ada 2 makna: pertama, ingin membiasakan bahwa tanpa TV pun hidup akan tetap nyaman, Jadi, kita mencoba mengurangi ketergantungan kita, terutama anak-anak, pada TV. Kedua, sebagai ungkapan keprihatinan kita terhadap isi tayangan TV yang tidak aman dan tidak sehat untuk anak.

Yang saya herankan, ada apa sih dengan TV? Kenapa merasa harus bisa hidup tanpa TV? Bukannya TV juga banyak manfaatnya? Kalo toh TV menjadi tidak bermanfaat dan lebih banyak merugikannya, itu salah per individu, bukan TV.

Mengenai tayangan TV yang tidak aman dan sehat untuk anak, maka dari itu ada jam malam kan? Kenapa harus ketakutan? Jam malam berarti anak sudah tidur kan? Kalo anak belum tidur, salah orang tuanya sendiri. Kenapa kita yang tidak punya anak harus repot-repot tidak bisa menonton tv? Bukan egois, but take your own business please. Don't share it with us.

My Birthday

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I don't do wishes :D

I'm 20. Do I have to be happy? I should. Even I hate to be old, but I thank to God for this 20 point of thanks giving:

1st. I'm 20 but I look like 17 :D

2nd. I'm healty so does everybody who I love.

3th. I still got my crazy but lovable family.

4th. I never lose my old friends. They still remember my birthday. So in my birthday, I can meet my old friends who I rarely talk with, eventho by sms or phone.

5th. I have more and more bestfriends everyday every year.

6th. I do so many things that I even can't believe I already done it.

7th. I met and know many people who can make my life more colorful.

8th. My cats are getting fatter and ugglier and dumber and lovable :)

9th. I earn my own money from my hard work.

10th. I got the best chef and the best catlover ever at my house (Her name is Mbak Rully)

11th. I found so many good music.

12th. I face alot of problems that made me more mature and... ehem... smart? Heheh.

13th. I gain alot of knowledge from what I learn in class and in where ever I stand.

14th. I'm skinnier and prettier. My mom said so. Haha.

15th. More age more surprises!

16th. Everyday I can eat and drink delicious things.

17th. I can sleep tight everynite without worry.

18th. Some of my dream came true :D

19th. I'm not just "still fine like always" but from years to years my life is getting better.

20th. I'm happy, and this is the important thing.

With those 20 things that I have right now, I think I don't need to make any wishes anymore. All I have to do is to feel thank for it. Thanks everybody and thanks God. I love you all more than I love myself :)

Kiss <3

Realistic Relationship

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Cit cuitttt!

I like someone right now, and so does he. Eventho I just met and know him 3 weeks ago, it feels like I know about him for years. We like to be together every single day from day to night. Yea we're a jerk. But it makes us know each other without sacrificing too much time for it.

Well yes, our days are fun. Too much fun. Movies, beach, working, breakfast, lunch, dinner, laughing, karaoke, double date, triple date, riding andong, holding hands, etc. He's the best guy I ever be with. Seriously.

But there's something I have to remember is, someday these will end just like that. I don't know is it him who like somebody else or me, but feelings will end. Then we meet somebody else, getting along with that somebody else, get bored, then meet somebody else again, etc. Don't think that you are always be together or forever have the same feeling with your lover now. Because it's just 40% possible. The 60% is impossible. However, there's a chance we will meet again and realizing that even we are bored, we still need each other to be with.

All I need to say is, I'm happy to be with him right now, but still I gotta be ready that someday this feelings will end. I know this is weird but I just want to think realistic so that I can manage my heart.

I Got Fired

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Ok, I feel sad.

I made a mistake. I didn't read the message on my cellphone. So I did something wrong and ruining everything on my work. Then I got fired.

This is what I call destiny. Just because my celly isn't working properly, I can't read the message, then I got fired. Is this a God's plan? I think so. But I believe, God's plan always the best, even it looks bad.

FPI, Insiden Monas, dan Keyakinan

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Memakai atribut ke-Islam-an dan
membawa bendera Indonesia: mempermalukan Islam dan Indonesia.

Sebenarnya saya sedang sibuk terpontang-panting disini, tapi khusus untuk mengungkapkan pendapat yang sejak kemarin terpendam, saya tulis ini dengan tergesa-gesa.

Terkait dengan Insiden Monas, yaitu aksi damai AKKBB (Aliansi Kebangsaan untuk Kebebasan Beragama dan Berkeyakinan) yang dinodai oleh aksi kekerasan FPI (Front Pembela Islam), ada 3 kunci pokok yang ingin saya sampaikan disini.

1. Saya Islam, tetapi saya tidak merasa agama saya dibela, melainkan dipermalukan. Sorry, agama saya tidak seperti itu. Islam tidak seperti itu. Maka dari itu hingga detik ini saya menganut Islam. Kalimat ini adalah kalimat yang selalu ingin saya sampaikan semenjak adanya aksi-aksi anarkis FPI di berita jauh sebelum Insiden Monas. Hey FPI, agama bukan mainan.

2. Kekerasan yang disengaja itu tidak layak dimaafkan. Apapun alasannya. Bahkan seorang wanita yang sering disiksa oleh suaminya, namun membunuh suaminya saat tidak sedang menyiksanya saja harus diadili, apalagi sekelompok lelaki yang mengajar sekelompok orang (laki-laki, perempuan, hingga anak-anak) yang tidak sedang menyerang mereka! Apakah perlu dimaafkan dan tidak diadili? Kalo ya, berarti jangan sebut negara ini negara hukum. Mempermalukan hukum saja.

3. Keyakinan adalah suatu pemikiran dan perasaan. Dari manakah pemikiran dan perasaan itu datang? Dari diri masing-masing individu. Seharusnya menjadi sesuatu yang tabu untuk membahas mengenai perasaan yang diyakini seseorang. Apalagi memaksakan keyakinan. Itu bukan hak saya, anda, atau mereka. Bukan hak satu orangpun di dunia ini untuk memaksakan keyakinannya pada orang lain.

Saya sedang menunggu dan tidak sabar untuk menikmati berita-berita di televisi maupun media cetak mengenai pembubaran dan penahanan anggota FPI. Serve the popcorn, please!

Memakai Bahasa Indonesia karena beberapa faktor.

Annoying Comment

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It was their fine neighbourhood.

I'm sad. I felt disappointed, unfair, and angry. Totally angry.

Did you know that the Lapindo victims haven't get their rights of their property and their life after these 2 years accident? Yes until NOW, they live like animals: no house, no enough facilities, no dream. So do you think it is annoying if the victims are angry asking for their life back? ABSOLUTELY NOT. So why this guy name Yogie wrote a comment in this blog, saying that the victims shouldn't be a beggar by begging too much and better go transmigrate to Irian Jaya. GOSH!!! It doesn't make any sense! This is the most cruel, foolish, and insensitive comment I ever read. I'm so angry when I read it. His comment tells me that he even doesn't think when he wrote it. What if the victims read it? It will break their heart. They need support not just useless argument.

Well, these are for him. Maybe these will help him to think:

1st. Transmigration NEED money. Transmigration to Irian Jaya NEED A LOT of money. But who's money? The victims already lost their money and properties. So where in the heck did you get that idea?

2nd. They are asking for their life that they have before the accident. That is their RIGHTS. Can you imagine how it feels like if you own a house, then somebody stole it, but no one can help you to get it back? Even no one cares about it! Can you imagine how it feels like? It feels UNFAIR. So don't blame the victims by telling them to stop fighting for their rights!

3rd. Aburizal Bakrie, who is responsible for the accident, is the #1 most rich man in South East Asia. It is so unfair if he lives like in paradise, while his victims live like in hell. Unfair. So do you still think, it is wrong if the victim kept begging their rights? Don't judge the victim are beggar, because they aren't. They did not beg for money, they beg for their stolen life.

4th. Please use your brain before you wrote something. What you wrote is what people think about you. And I think you are such a smart-ass, I mean, SOK TAU.

For Lapindo victims:
Please ignore such an insensitive people like him.

Annoying Comment

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It was their fine neighbourhood.

I'm sad. I felt disappointed, unfair, and angry. Totally angry.

Did you know that the Lapindo victims haven't get their rights of their property and their life after these 2 years accident? Yes until NOW, they live like animals: no house, no enough facilities, no dream. So do you think it is annoying if the victims are angry asking for their life back? ABSOLUTELY NOT. So why this guy name Yogie wrote a comment in this blog, saying that the victims shouldn't be a beggar by begging too much and better go transmigrate to Irian Jaya. GOSH!!! It doesn't make any sense! This is the most cruel, foolish, and insensitive comment I ever read. I'm so angry when I read it. His comment tells me that he even doesn't think when he wrote it. What if the victims read it? It will break their heart. They need support not just useless argument.

Well, these are for him. Maybe these will help him to think:

1st. Transmigration NEED money. Transmigration to Irian Jaya NEED A LOT of money. But who's money? The victims already lost their money and properties. So where in the heck did you get that idea?

2nd. They are asking for their life that they have before the accident. That is their RIGHTS. Can you imagine how it feels like if you own a house, then somebody stole it, but no one can help you to get it back? Even no one cares about it! Can you imagine how it feels like? It feels UNFAIR. So don't blame the victims by telling them to stop fighting for their rights!

3rd. Aburizal Bakrie, who is responsible for the accident, is the #1 most rich man in South East Asia. It is so unfair if he lives like in paradise, while his victims live like in hell. Unfair. So do you still think, it is wrong if the victim kept begging their rights? Don't judge the victim are beggar, because they aren't. They did not beg for money, they beg for their stolen life.

4th. Please use your brain before you wrote something. What you wrote is what people think about you. And I think you are such a smart-ass, I mean, SOK TAU.

For Lapindo victims:
Please ignore such an insensitive people like him.

Are We Really Awake?

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too weak to wake-up.

I felt disappointed by the news on every media in this country.

Too much information about the accident that killed an actor, Sophan Sophian, but less information about our two national heroes, Ali Sadikin and S.K Trimurti, who just passed away 2 days ago. Sophan Sophian is a good man (like what I heard on tv), but compared with what did Ali Sadikin and S.K Trimurti have done, Sophan Sophian is nothing. So why these media keep showing how sorry they are to lose an actor (who once ever be a member in DPR) and forgeting about the real national heroes?

Is this what we call "Kebangkitan Bangsa"? Are we really awake? Or we are too weak for that?

I think from now on, I should call this country Ironic.

Well welcome to Ironic, people. Please enjoy the tiresome.

Are We Really Awake?

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too weak to wake-up.

I felt disappointed by the news on every media in this country.

Too much information about the accident that killed an actor, Sophan Sophian, but less information about our two national heroes, Ali Sadikin and S.K Trimurti, who just passed away 2 days ago. Sophan Sophian is a good man (like what I heard on tv), but compared with what did Ali Sadikin and S.K Trimurti have done, Sophan Sophian is nothing. So why these media keep showing how sorry they are to lose an actor (who once ever be a member in DPR) and forgeting about the real national heroes?

Is this what we call "Kebangkitan Bangsa"? Are we really awake? Or we are too weak for that?

I think from now on, I should call this country Ironic.

Well welcome to Ironic, people. Please enjoy the tiresome.